Nyob rau hauv kev lees paub ntawm Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month, Pacific Clinics Social Worker Trishka Lampkin qhia xya lub cim ceeb toom ntawm kev sib tham hluas nkauj, ob qho tib si ua ntej kev tsim txom tshwm sim thiab qhia tias nws tshwm sim, uas yuav tsum tsis txhob ignored. Lampkin yog tus kws tshaj lij ntawm cov ncauj lus los ntawm nws txoj haujlwm ua Tus Kws Lij Choj thiab Tsev Neeg Kho Mob, thiab vim tias nws tau ntsib kev tsim txom thawj zaug thaum nws tseem hluas.
1. Kev tswj hwm. Kev tswj hwm yuav suav nrog tus neeg tsim txom uas txwv tsis pub lossis saib xyuas leej twg lawv tus khub tham nrog thiab / lossis muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog; tawm tswv yim los yog txiav txim rau kev xaiv khaub ncaws; nrhiav lawv tus khub lub xov tooj ntawm tes; los yog saib xyuas lawv cov social media platforms.
2. Cov cim qhia ntawm kev sib cais. Tus khub uas raug tsim txom yuav pib txiav kev sib raug zoo nrog cov phooj ywg thiab tuaj yeem koom nrog tsev neeg sib sau ua ke tsawg dua. Tsis tas li, yog tias tus neeg tsim txom pom ib tus neeg txhawb nqa, nws yuav sim thawb tus neeg ntawd tawm ntawm lawv tus khub lub neej.
3. Kev ua ntawm manipulation. Manipulation tuaj yeem siv ntau hom, tab sis ib qho ntawm cov ntaub ntawv txaus ntshai tshaj plaws yog thaum ib tus khub hem ua phem rau lawv tus kheej yog tias lwm tus tawm los yog ntxias lawv tus khub lawv yuav tsis muaj lwm tus yog tias lawv tawm mus.
4. Muaj kev sib deev blackmail lossis "kev ua pauj kua zaub ntsuab." Qhov no yog thaum tus neeg ua phem rau tus khub sib koom thiab cuam tshuam cov duab lossis yeeb yaj kiab yam tsis muaj lawv tus khub pom zoo kom txaj muag thiab tswj hwm lawv. Cov pawg no tseem tuaj yeem suav nrog tus neeg raug yuam kom koom nrog kev sib deev ntau dua lossis ntau zaus vim tias lawv tau koom nrog ib lossis ob qhov ntawm qhov kev ua yav dhau los.
5. Kev sib deev/kev siv nyiaj txiag. "Muaj ntau yam uas peb pom yog cov tub ntxhais hluas raug kev sib deev los ntawm cov txiv neej laus lossis los ntawm qhov peb hu ua 'Romeo pimps.' Qhov no yog qhov uas tus neeg tsim txom qhia rau lawv tus khub tias lawv hnub sab nraud ntawm kev sib raug zoo rau nyiaj lossis khoom siv, "hais Lampkin. "Lawv lub hom phiaj tsis yog ua ib zaug lossis ob zaug, tab sis ntau zaus. Nws yog kev ntxias. Qee lub sij hawm muaj poj niam exploiters thiab, hu ua 'recruiters'. Kev siv dag zog kuj tuaj yeem zoo li muab khoom plig tom qab tus neeg tsim txom tau ua tej yam phem. "
6. Cov ntaub ntawv ntawm entrapment. Nws tsis yog qhov tsis tau hnov dua rau tus txiv neej tus khub sim thiab impregnate tus khub raws li daim ntawv ntawm entrapment. Qhov no tuaj yeem suav nrog kev sib deev tsis muaj kev tiv thaiv yam tsis muaj lawv tus khub kev paub lossis kev quab yuam lossis txaj muag rau lawv tus khub kom tsis txhob siv kev tiv thaiv.
7. Qhov tseeb ntawm lub cev hem lossis tsim kev puas tsuaj. Feem ntau, yog tias tus khub raug tsim txom txiav txim siab tawm lossis thawb rov qab rau lwm hom kev tsim txom lossis kev tswj hwm, tus neeg tsim txom yuav sim tswj hwm los ntawm kev tsim txom lub cev lossis kev hem.
Lampkin txhawb cov kws kho mob hlwb thiab cov kws kho mob kom paub ntxiv txog cov cim no, tsim cov phiaj xwm kev nyab xeeb nrog tus neeg raug tsim txom thiab txuas ntxiv txhawb nqa thiab muab cov peev txheej txawm tias tus neeg siv khoom tsis npaj lossis xav tshem lawv tus kheej ntawm qhov xwm txheej. "Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas lawv paub tias lawv tsis nyob ib leeg," nws hais.
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