Yog tias muaj ib cov lus uas Kim zaj dab neeg hais txog kev txhawb nqa niam txiv, nws yuav yog tias tsis yog txhua qhov chaw zov me nyuam yuav zoo ib yam lossis mus raws nraim li tau npaj tseg. Thiab qhov ntawd yog ok, nws hais.
Cov niam txiv ntawm ob (tam sim no) hais tias kev pab cov tub ntxhais hluas nyuaj rau lub sijhawm luv luv yog feem ntau nws "qhov chaw qab zib."
"Nws tsuas yog kuv nyob hauv tsev thiab kuv ua haujlwm, yog li kuv yuav tsum xav txog cov xwm txheej no," nws hais.
Tus neeg nyob hauv Modesto/Ceres ua haujlwm nrog cov tub ntxhais hluas hauv kev tu menyuam ua ib feem ntawm nws txoj haujlwm, tab sis "tsis tau xav txog kev txhawb nqa" nws tus kheej mus txog rau ob peb xyoos dhau los.
"Muaj ib txwm muaj tus menyuam yaus uas tau txais kev saib xyuas koj," nws hais.
Rau Kim, thawj tus menyuam uas tau hais lus rau nws yog ib tug tub muaj hnub nyoog 18 xyoo uas muaj kev puas hlwb puas hlwb nyob hauv ib pab pawg. Nws coj nws los saib xyuas nws mus txog thaum nws xav tias nws tsis tsim nyog ua li ntawd lawm.
"Qhov kuv tuaj yeem ua tau tsis yog qhov uas lwm tus tuaj yeem ua tau. Nws hais tias thawj zaug nws nyuaj rau lees txais, "tab sis koj yuav tsum paub koj cov kev txwv. Nws yog qhov ua tau kom muaj kev txwv thiab paub tias koj ua haujlwm zoo tshaj plaws los pab cov menyuam no. "
Tam sim no nws muaj ob tug tub thiab ua qhov tseem ceeb coj lawv mus ncig me me thoob plaws hauv lub xyoo vim tias, "muaj ntau yam uas lawv tsis tau pom hauv ntiaj teb." Ib tug ntawm nws cov menyuam yeej tsis tau nyob hauv lub dav hlau ua ntej.
Tab sis tam sim no, lawv cov duab album tau sau nrog cov duab nyob deb thiab tsis deb ntawm qhov chaw thiab lawv muaj kev zoo siab thiab kev txaus siab txog kev mus ncig uas lawv tau ntsib - thiab cov zaub mov lawv tau sim.
Nws tau koom nrog nws tus tub thib ob uas tau yug los txog peb xyoos dhau los tom qab ua haujlwm nrog cov hluas thiab muab nws nrog tsev neeg ruaj khov.
"Tab sis peb lub hlis tom qab," nws hais tias, "Kuv tau hu xov tooj los ntawm ib tus neeg ua haujlwm hauv nroog thiab nws zoo li 'nws thov kom nyob nrog koj."
Los ntawm nws tus kheej thiab kev paub dhau los, nws hais tias "qee zaum nws tsis haum thiab nws tsis muaj dab tsi tawm tsam niam txiv, tsev lossis tus menyuam."
Thiab qee zaum nws is ib fit. Tam sim no Kim muaj kev saib xyuas ntawm tus tub hluas thiab hais tias, "Kuv zoo siab rau nws ua ntej nws tuaj txog hauv kuv tsev thiab nws tseem ua tej yam zoo. Nws kawm tiav high school ntawm 16 thiab twb tau mus kawm hauv cov chav kawm ntawv qib siab thiab muaj ib txoj kev npaj. Nws tseem nyob hauv tsev kawm ntawv thiab nyob rau hauv ib qho kev hloov pauv vaj tsev nyob - nws yog tus neeg ywj pheej tshaj plaws uas lawv tau muaj. "
Tab sis txhua qhov xwm txheej thiab txhua tus menyuam yaus txawv, nws hais. “Muaj qee lub sijhawm koj xav kom koj tuaj yeem pab cov menyuam yaus ntau dua, tab sis lawv yuav tsum npaj txhij thiab. Thiab qhov ntawd tuaj yeem ua rau mob siab thaum lub sijhawm tawm. "
Kim muaj cov lus qhia no rau cov niam txiv yav tom ntej: “Nug ntau lo lus nug. Thawb rau tag nrho cov ntaub ntawv koj tuaj yeem tau txais. Qhov ntau koj paub, koj yuav muaj kev vam meej ntau dua. "
Kim hais tias "Kuv muaj txoj cai ntawm kev mus ncig no," Kim hais. "Kuv hais rau lawv tias lawv tsis tuaj yeem noj qhov chaw lawv tuaj yeem noj hauv tsev ... vim kuv xav kom lawv muaj ntau yam tshiab raws li lawv ua tau."
